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Girlfriend's Bedroom
Name = gobledygook
Agenow = 20
when = 18
Where = Gilrfriend's bedroom
Sex1 = Male
How = We were watching a dvd on her bed and just decided to try it. I put on a condom and she pulled down her pants. It lasted all of half a second before i stopped because i was too nervous and afraid of being walked in on by her family. Not good for either of us then..........
Friend's House
Agenow = 28
when = 18
Where = friends house
Sex2 = Female
How = i was 18, all my friends had done it. so we were all out one night in the local town hanging out with a load of guys we know. all the rest of the girls were paired up and i was chatting to a friend. he didnt usually hang around with us but i knew him, so he came to my friends house with me. i knew what was going to happen. it was ok, not bad or anything and he knew it was my first time, but only after we got to my friends house. i think it freaked him out a bit.
i still see him around. from time to time but we dont really acknowledge it.
ah well.... its got better since!!
My Bedroom!
Name = Tea
Agenow = 19
when = 17
Where = My Bedroom
Sex2 = Female
How = I was 17 and I had known him forever and only spoken to him three or four times. We wernt even friends until the last few weeks before our final exams. I had never given much thought over to him, let alone dated or even hung out with him but one day he walked through the door and he had a certain glow about him that made him irresistible. If something didnt happen then I knew it never would. Courage sprang up out of nowhere and I asked him out and he said yes. I took down his phone number wrong but thankfully he texted me back.We spent almost every day that Summer together.
I always thought my first time would have been something monumental and well...huge but realistically it was just the next step. I went on the pill and forced my boyfriend to go into the pharmacy alone to get condoms. He was so embarrassed but as I put it; if he wasnt man enough to buy condoms he wasnt man enough to have sex. He even brought ID with him just in case the pharmacist would be bothered checking if he was over 15. Bless his little cotton socks.
The house was empty. We started fooling around on my bed. We hadnt planned on having sex right then and there. He was going off down the country to university in a few weeks. I was staying in the city. A little part of me was apprehensive about rushing in. A big part of me didnt want him to go without having sex with me. I wanted to have that claim on him. I wanted to be his first time. Aware that our relationship was on the edge of the big vast world of Long Distance I ignored the little voice.
My first time was really nice. No fireworks but everything fitted. Maybe a little clumsy...ok maybe a lot clumsy but it was really special. I was lucky enough that my first time was with somebody I loved and who loved me. I think thats all I had ever wanted.
We're still together and the sex is now awesome. Maybe the sex made it harder when he left but it made it better when he came back. We take turns travelling up and down Ireland and indulging in long sexy texts when lectures get boring. I hope he's the only guy I ever have sex with.
My bedroom in my Parent's House
Name = Redzer
Agenow = 33
Where = My bedroom in my Parents house
Sex2 = Female
How = My parents were away and we had a house party. I had no intention of having sex that night but most of my friends had, and it was inevitable it would happen soon, I guess.
Thankfully it was with a friend of mine who, when I look back was quite a sweet guy.
I do believe he took advantage of the fact that I was more drunk than I probably had ever been. We had a kiss in my bedroom, next thing my clothes are off and were having sex in my single bed. It didnt last long and when we were done, I just got up, got dressed and went downstairs to the rest of my friends.
We were never together after that, he ended up dating my friend. We got a bit of slagging off all our friends when they found out and that was pretty much it. Never spoken about again.
I dont have any regrets, it could have been a lot worse Im sure.
God.....Im so glad Im a happily married woman now, and not that shy, chubby teenager again.I pity todays teenagers
My Bedroom
Name = catwoman
Agenow = 22
Where = my bedroom
Sex2 = Female
How = I was going out with him about a year. We were youngish but we were mad bout each other. He told me he loved me and i felt the same. His parents were very strict so didnt let him come down into the town to see me,they didnt like me. They thought i wasnt good enough for their son,snobs. It was valentines and we wanted to see each other. His parents wouldnt let him come down so he decided to sneak out when they had gone to bed. Before prentending to go to bed he ran down stairs and put a ladder up to his back window. When his parents and gone to bed,he climbed out the window and cycled down to my house. I let him in and we sneaked up to my room. We were just lying in the bed kissing and playing around. Then i suggested that we go further. We had discussed it before and had the condoms got. We were so nervous. I pulled down my pyjamas pants and pulled down his pants. We were a little clumsy putting the condom on but eventually got it on. He rolled over on top of me and i gu ided him in. He just started moving slowly on top of me and then the next thing i know we were really getting down to things and he was really moving on top of me. I loved it. It felt like we had done it before. About a year later we split and stared going out with different people. Im so glad that was my first time and that it was with someone who loved me and who i loved.
College in Dundalk
Name = dackmc
Agenow = 31
when = 17
Where = college in Dundalk
Sex1 = Male
How = after the halloween ball in Dundalk IT we ended up back at a house that was packed , as the party fizzed out we all tried to find somewhere to sleep i bagged one couch and onother guy bagged the other couch 2 guys grabber the 2 armchairs and 2 guys left a little worse for ware with there disco biscutes in them found 2 small tables about a foot wide by 3 ft long so they grabbed one each , i thought all was a sleep except me when i heard a knock on the window i let in a girl from our class who we all avoided and slagged eachother about , well she got on to my couch and invited me in with in a few mins she was hard at work getting my pants off , a quick check to make sure my mats were asleep so i wouldnr be caught and i joined in as a horny 17 year old virgin i wasnt going to let this chance pass so in the throws of it she stops , and asks is one of the guys asleep on the coffee table awake to which i reply no he just sleep talks and continued until my outburst with climax
was almost in sinq with the 2 guys bursting into laughter babbling about my excuese the poor girl got up and left in tears ,but i was a man
A Library Toilet
Name = Claire
when = Too Young
Where = a library toilet!
Sex2 = Female
How = Okay so yes i was young, way too young! and a year on? well lets just say its the biggest mistake/regret i have ever made.... if i could go back it made me grow up far to quickly and the library toilet wasnt exactly what i had in mind for a romantic first time! But it happened Heres How.... Well i had been with my then sixteen year old boyfriend for about six months which for teenagers was kind of long but he had been going on about having sex for a while i honestly didnt feel ready at all physically or emotionally and to this day I'll never forgive myself for letting someone else talk me into something i didnt want to do because I can honestly admit it was my fault I regret it now because i should have told him how i felt and i didnt want to do it but i didnt i was too scared because i knew he would break up with me if i didnt do it with him and i did and ohh my god it was so weird and painful much? we used protection and did for the following 6 months after that we were together but now were broke up well Im quiet glad but yeah it was a bad experience for my first time not as romantic and special as i would have hoped but it was still my first time and i will never ever forget it....
My College House after date
Agenow = 23
when = 21
Where = My College house after date
Sex1 = Male
How = It happened in my final year of college and was a moment I had been waiting for since my I realised women are the prey and can offer the holy grail that is sweet, sweet sex.
Anyways. I have always been great with women. I have a natural charisma and charm. I'm decent looking and know how to present myself, please excuse my self-flattery. Every party or social gathering since my early teens I've always been the guy who was totally un-intimidated by women and new exactly how to deal with them. I- in short- was the perfect saleman for my virginity.To put it crudely, I guess I've been in the game like us all since the heady days of teenage discos in the community centres. And again like us all (well most) my V plates were still well in place for my new adventure in the big city of dublin.
College!!!! I stocked up on condoms. I was surely going to be having AT LEAST four times a week, all with the various colleges girls on offer. This was not the case. The uber confident, charismatic, funny, friendly and "attractive to women" wexford boy never really became the sack demon he had foreseen. Countless night I had been invited to girls houses and countless nights I brought girls back to mine, but nothing ever came of these visits. I shite myself everytime. I think this was a stupid thing my parents had beaten into me (not reaaaly beaten but you know). I was of the thought that I should respect women and not do anything they didn't want to do. It was only when I met the girl I lost my virginity to, I was correctly told "ALL WOMEN WANT AND CRAVE SEX, JUST AS MUCH AS YOU DO!"The night itself? The usual ,back to mine. A girl I had been on countless dates with and thought was lovely came back and decided to stay the night. We weren't drinking but we were both well dressed. She asked for a tshirt, I gave her one. We both led down on the double bed, said our goodnights and went off to snooze land. I kissed the girls back and rubbed her stomach for about five years. Too scared to "drop the hand". In the morning I again rubbed her stomach again and finally lowered my hand to a tense body with a moan. I started to finger the girl with a grin on my face. I WAS DOING IT!! I WAS DOING IT!!
She turned around to me and "It was on". I asked her to take off her bra. I sucked her breast like a baby breast feeding for the first time with awe and bliss. I threw her on the bed and removed her thong. And started giving her oral sex. Over the ten year I wasn't getting any, I pretty much was a black belt in watching porn and I knew everything to do.
We both got naked and I put on a condom. I was free at last. Heres what you wanted boy. I don't want to sound like I'm fooling myself but I was so big, so hard and fucking so hard. She was loving it whilst I was getting four years of missed sexual college expiriences out of my system.
Jamie- First love, who I never spoiled, nothing Elaine Mc-Leaving cert Holiday in Portugal, nothing Claire- many nights after Dtwo, nothing Hilanna -county colours night in Tramco, nothing Joanne (forgets second name)-Date then back to mine, nothing Lisa - Drunken night back to hers, nothing, nothing Emma Stanhope-Hostel in Germany, nothing
I was letting rip. I was amazing. I came violently all over myself after an epic blowjob.
We started dating not long after and had a nigh on perfect relationship. Although, without spreading bullshit, I had a reputation as a womeniser so I didn't reek "virgin". it was never sort of mentioned. Many weeks later I sort of shamefully (given my age) and in some way gleefully told the girl she was my first. She thought it was beautiful and teared up a bit.
We only broke up just last week as the relationship just wasn't what both parties wanted. But after a year and half It was one of the most enjoyable times of my life. And I am so happy it ended up, I somewhat unwillingly saved myself for someone who I truly loved and will always love.
Thanks Julie! Thanks for finally making me a man.
Love x
In Bed!
Name = Ric o
Agenow = 26
when = 24
Where = In bed
Sex1 = Male
How = Been a virgin in your 20's is not easy. Most people it would seem lose their virginity before they turn 21. So at the age of 24 I decided I wasn‘t going to wait any longer. I was going to have sex even if it meant paying for it. I was tired of waiting, and hearing your friends talking about their sexual experiences can be difficult and embarrassing when you haven't done it. Even though most people would consider me quite attractive, I have never had much luck with the opposite sex. Maybe it was due to lack of confidence, or maybe my teetotal lifestyle prevented me from meeting many women as most socialising in Ireland revolves around alcohol. Either way I decided enough was enough. I wasn't going to wait any longer to have sex. So I decided to hire an escort.
After browsing the Internet I arranged to meet with a girl called Leona. A 27 year old Brazilian. I was very nervous as I approached the apartment where she lived. I rang the door bell. She answered wearing some lingerie and high heel shoes. She was not the most attractive girl id ever seen but i decided to go ahead with it anyway.
After paying her we both got undressed. I lay on the bed and she put the condom on and gave me a blowjob. Nothing special there! Then came the big moment. Putting my penis inside a woman’s vagina. I always had this idea in my head of what it would be like, but once I got it in there it felt a bit strange. The condom certainly dulls the sensation and it didn’t actually feel like i had my penis inside a vagina. Somehow I was expecting it to be tighter. After starting in the Missionary position, (which was very uncomfortable) I then proceeded to doggie style which was a lot easier. I always imagined that the first time I had sex with a girl it would be all over in a few minutes, but I must have lasted at least 20 minutes. I found it very difficult to cum. Maybe it was because I was nervous or maybe it was due to the fact that it felt like I was sticking my penis in the back of a hearse. I honestly thought a vagina would be much tighter and a more pleasant thing to be in. After some hard thrusting and a lot of sweating I finally managed to cum.
Afterwards we cleaned up, I said thank you and then I left. That was it. What was all the fuss about I wondered. It was disappointing to say the least but I was glad I finally got It over and done with. I had no regrets about using an escort. Now my curiosity had gone and I could relax and feel more comfortable the next time a conversation crept up about people’s favourite sexual positions.
Now…. there are people who are going to say, “ahh but when you do it with someone you love its different because its special and she wants it too and its magical and blah blah blah." BULLSHIT! Ironically 3 months after I lost my virginity to an escort I met a nice girl who became my first girlfriend and when we eventually had sex it was every bit as disappointing as the sex I had with the escort. Even though it was more intimate with my girlfriend the physicality of it was just the same.
So there you have it. That was my first time.
I’d just like to point out that I have used a few escorts since Leona and the sex has become more enjoyable. As far as the morality of paying for sex is concerned, don’t all men pay for sex anyway? Drinks, meals, flowers etc. I would rather use an escort that do it with some girl I met in a night club. After all is said and done I would imagine that most people’s first time was nothing special regardless of who they did it with and the circumstances surrounding it.
Brothel
Name = snowy
Agenow = 20
when = 19 1/2
Where = brothel
Sex1 = Male
How = only way 2 gt some.
Dun Laoghaire
Name = Nod
Agenow = 46
when = 24
Where = Dun Laoghaire
Sex1 = Male
How = Lucky or what? A phonecall out of the blue when I was visiting my folks house (I had moved out a few years at that stage and was happly living a carefree life in Ranelagh)but suddenly here I was talking to a teenage girlfriend who just happened to phone wondering if I was still around. So we talked about old times, what we both got up to and decided to meet up for a drink and seeing that Dun Laoghaire was the half way meeting point we arranged to hook up for as drink. A few days later we were chatting away like we had known eachother for donkeys years. I was still single but she had got hitched a few years before and but that wasn't really working out. We both could feel a special bond between us and said that I'd walk her to get her bus home...she decided otherwise and we walked about the town still chatting away, anyroad we were walking up by the East Pier and nipped over to one of the shelters across the road, the one that has a commanding a view of one of the Yacht clubs and started snogging away for old times sake. withing minutes here I was petting away seeing that a decade earlier it was a big No No! One thing led to another and it was she who made the first move, as they say 'the rest is history' I got a taxi and dropped her off around the corner from her house and then back to the flat - beaming I might add seeing that I finally got my rock n' roll!!
We did see eachother a few times and the encounter continued until a few months later I felt guilty and we both agreed to end our fling.
I'm not in the Dun Laoghaire area much these days, but whenever I travel by Marine Road, I sure have a huge smile on my musher recounting that night of lust!
I haven't seen nor heard of her since.
Majorca, Spain
Agenow = 28
when = 18
Where = Majorca Spain
Sex2 = Female
How = It was my first time going away with my friends after my leaving cert. We had arrived early into the morning hours, so our first night out was the next day.We went to a local bar. We were soon joined by the person that was to take my "first time", the person that was to rape me. But not before he drugged my drink, and then left, until I was to make my way , staggering back to my apartment where he was waiting for me.I was in and out of consciousness.All I remember was my friends screaming at him to stop,I didn't know what they were seeing as I could not focus.I got up from the floor, falling around the room.I was naked from the waist down.The person that did this to me, was calmly getting dressed.I went into the bathroom where I was bleeding profusely.I was to discover, in hospital, that I had severe internal bleeding aswell as external injuries.I realised then that my virginity was gone along with a part of my soul.I still do not know if he was the only one, as I have had flashbacks and nightmares, and when I was released from hospital, he and his friends approached me in the street and begged me not to go to the police.I still do not know, nor want to .I feel sad that he was in my body without wanting him there, or knowing what was happening to me.I have spent many years crying, thinking, getting mad, getting sick over it.But mostly just sad.It's a deep sadness, but one now that I can share with my husband.I think of my husband of "my real first time", the first time I really gave myself to someone.Someone I love.
Tullamore
Name = FirstAidKit
Agenow = 25
when = 18
Where = in my boyfriends bed in Tullamore
Sex2 = Female
How = I had turned 18 that summer, just started college wohoo, same year most of my new college friends had their first time too..He was 30, a chef, hung like a donkey, his age impressed my friends no end, they never met him though...
Looking back I think to myself.. what the hell.. is he some kind of pervert?, at the time I was fairly smitten, not in love though.. oh no..
It was a friday night I think, and I told him.. "I'm ready".. he was pretty tired (long hours and all that). So he was huge, I wasn't very nervous, and I loved it instantly. I didn't come.. it lasted about 5 minutes (I told you he was tired :-) I wanted to do it again after another 10 mins had past.. he told me he wasn't able for me. I left him about a month later.. boyfriend no.2 was amazing in bed :-)
In a car at the dump carpark
Agenow = 33
Where = In a car at the dump carpark.
Sex2 = Female
How = He was 18 it was his first time too, unfortunately it was all over by the time we got the condom on. We tried again later and lost the condom so I had to go rooting for it myself as it was still inside me. We turned on the lights to look for it as it was dark, when I eventually found it we used the last in our pack of three and it was OK we got there in the end. But when we turned the lights back off after only then did we see the five teens peering in the window scattering.Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Chicago
Agenow = 33
when = 19
Where = Chicago
Sex1 = Male
How = On a roof top overlooking Chicago's skyline. A girl who was much prettier then I thought - I was on cloud nine that I had even kissed her...let alone have sex with her. We sat on the roof of a skyscraper in the middle of a hot Chicago summer with a bottle of cheap Californian wine. I lost my virginity as the sun came up. I guess it was much more enjoyable for me then her...did I mention I had met her in a bar earlier!!! She gave me her number. I never did have the balls to call her....What a chicken shit! She was hot!!!
In the Sticks
Name = heye lee mbar assed
Agenow = 51
when = 17
Where = in the sticks
Sex2 = Female
How = lying in the open air wathcing the stars, having drunk several pints of guinness. very romantic. then suddenly realising I was going to throw up. dashed away to nearest bathroom without explanation, after flushing loo turned to compose myself only to realise my temporary denture plate had gone sailing down the drain. then having to return to loved one to get him to retrieve said dental plate. not very romantic! still have a good laugh about that one.
In the Dublin Mountains in a car
Name = Fairytale girl
Agenow = 30
when = 21
Where = In the Dublin mountains in a car
Sex2 = Female
How = I was going out with this guy, a 'spark' for a couple of weeks. He was a little older and didn't know I was a virgin. After a few drinks, and feeling brave, we went for a 'drive'. Up the dublin mountains, around and around the winding roads, and we find a lay by and pull in. There's a field of sheep beside us and when the headlights are on, you can see them staring. So weird!
So we're getting down to it and I'm pretending I know it all, which is not hard really. Eventually I'm lying, naked on the back seat and he enters me and I'm like "okay, so this is sex. I'm having sex". To be honest he had a tiny manhood and I felt very little. But I was proud as punch, smiling to myself for days afterwards.
So I lost my virginity, in the back of a crappy, filthy little car somewhere up the dublin mountains with a field of sheep watching me!
Lad's Car
Name = babe
Agenow = 17
Where = lads car
Sex2 = Female
How = havin sex for the first time was the worst. it was awkard and i was drunk i cant member much of it thats y i hate my first time so much because i dont know wats it is reali like. i am so nervous to have sex again ...
Church Garden Grounds
Name = Chick
Agenow = 32
Where = Church garden grounds
Sex2 = Female
How = Well, firstly ,i was infatutiated with the guy, i snogged him once or twice before, that night we hooked up after a sneekey half can of cider (;)) and it was a- lets sneak off to somewhere secluded situation, so, we led ourselves to the garden at the back of a local convent,(!) The area was and still is as it happens, covered with large fir trees and also hosts very old concrete toilets( that where no longer in operation i might add). It was an awkward affair.. fumbly and bloody cold! we snogged we explored and eventually tried to get to the intended with great difficulty, due to the serious lack of experience! and the fact it was an outdoor job( it would still be bloody difficult to orchestrate it now, outdoors in that space and i'm twice the age !!) Even though it was awkward, cold and quite sore (to be honest!) i still remember it with a smile as its part of me and who I am today. :)I hope the guy still remembers it with a smile also, I've not seen him since my late teens it would be nice to know if his technique and seduction skills had improved !!!!
Wittness Music Festival
Name = sarah
Agenow = 22
Where = Wittnness Music Festival
Sex2 = Female
How = In retrospect, I must have been a total nightmare for my parents to put up with. I always did exactly what I wanted and this summer was no exception. I announced I was going to a music festival that year, bought the ticket months in advance with the wages from my Saturday job and wouldn't take no for an answer. Eventually I convinced them that my friends would be there and they would look out for me. I was one of the youngest in my group of friends, just out of transition year, while most of them had just finished their Leaving Cert. When she heard that Brendan was going, my mother chilled out a bit.He was the "nice boy" that every parent loves and she was convinced he would look out for me. She had been mad about him since the previous year when he arrived at the door to collect me for his debs ball. We had been boyfriend and girlfriend, very innocently, around that time and it hadn't worked out, but for the last few months we had been the best of friends.
Anyway, festival was incredible. About fifteen of us pitched our tents in a circle. We were all pretty drunk and stoned for most of it and yet I remember it all so clearly.
Brendan wasn't even supposed to be in my tent, but he was turfed out of his own when one of the lads brought a girl back. I said he could sleep in my tent, which was a rickety "antique" of a thing that my oldest sister had brought to Slane when she went to see Springsteen years ago, before I was even born. As you can imagine, the vintage tent wasn't the comfiest place in the world so the two of us were cuddled up to keep warm. One thing led to another and suddenly we were kissing and touching one another. Being part of the same group of loudmouth teenagers, I knew he wasn't a virgin and he knew I was. He wasn't going to take it further than I was ready to go. I wanted my first time to be with somebody special, that I knew cared about me, I wanted it to be with him. I told him this and he said he wanted that too.
We spent the next three nights together. It was really special and incredibly satisfying. I had honestly thought my first time would be awful, because you hear that so often in magazines and stuff, but it just felt really good and really right. It was a really special time for me and i am so glad that i had such a considerate and attentive partner
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